@ Jon.. You're right I am jealous of your sitch.. It is a virtual certainty that my w has had "PA" since we have separated. I put it in quotes because she thinks of us a completely broken up .... so she is not cheating. It is possible that she had something going on before BD and that would bother me a bit more.. But either way, I would love to have my w want to work on the M. I could forgive her for everything as long as she put the effort in.
Nonetheless, I get where you are coming from. When I found out that w1 had been physical with another man was the point that I was able to move on. I was done with that M.
This time I know that I need to make major changes to me before I get involved with anyone else. Honestly, I am not even sure about everything that I need to do. I am on a bit of a journey to find me.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)
