Waiting game at this point just stinks. W is an intelligent woman who has seen things for what they are at times during the ride. She just isn't ready to let go of her OM crutch and start the work of accepting her actions. That would mean pulling herself up by her bootstraps and standing up to what she's done and being a responsible adult.
That kind of sounds as if you are blaming HER for everything...
Are you ????
Clearly not. I know what my contributions to our failing marriage have been. As BD happened, it was a major wake up call for me. I have said multiple times to W we shouldn't keep score and place blame. I am addressing my shortcomings with my kids and my W. As I have been struggling with a failing marriage for years, I have chosen to stick to my vows and honor my commitment unlike my W who has not.
Oh, and hey Grit, good to see you spreadin dust again...
Both 40 T-22 M-18 S13 S11
Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13 EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13 EA #2-9/13/13
