constant reminders - triggers

[abbey1989]

Thank you Starsky.....good advice. Arghhhhhh it is in my nature to be kind, nice, understanding, etc...

Now that this is 2 1/2 weeks behind me, I am still haunted about the fact that he rented his new "place" in Sept of 2012! Holy moly he has thought about this for a long time.

He has completely separated all of his accounts from mine. Bank, phone, everything.

Just in a weird place. He went shopping for me and bought me some new clothes for my girls trip (leave tomorrow) yay. Very sweet....he hasn't done that in a long time. I am beginning to see how my life will be without his income. I don't want to ask for $$ (pride). But we are living together, sharing a bed, but just feels very separate too. Crazy.

Thanks DB friends for all of the support and putting up with my craziness. hugs.