Linda, she may smirk at you just to confuse you......while on the inside seething and confused. Like our MLC spouses I would believe only half of what you see with her.....maybe, less. She has a lot to lose if H doesn't divorce you and marry her, she's fighting dirty, because SHE doesn't have any other viable option.
You will ALWAYS be better than her. You have dignity, intelligence, you are truly loved and and have self-respect.....no matter the outcome these are traits she will never posses. If your H were to actually, foolishly, chose her over you you will not only survive you'll thrive.
Try, as much as you can (my H doesn't seem to be having an PA currently although the first time he left, when I was pregnant with S18, he did and we ALL worked in the same building as did H's dad, sister and PA's mom and step dad) my dear to not allow the life of a gnat destroy your inner peace.
Thinking of you Hun. Have a good day:)
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