That's the idea that I intend to follow NQ, just not bring any of this up at all H needs to grow up and start taking responsibility for his own actions. My friend suggested that if he carries on hassling and threatening me, then I will say that he's owes me back payment on maintenance This will only be as a last resort though I met my friend and we had a lovely catch up I went to do some shopping and H rang me when I was in the supermarket. He said he was round collecting his mail and I said that I'd just popped out to get some shopping. He asked me how it went this morning and I told him everything's ok and there's no need to worry. I told him some things they asked me on a need to know basis Not that there was much to hide anyway, it was just a flying visit really. I had to sign a statement and maybe get a report in a few days time. I don't really know what happens next. For the first time ever I ended the conversation first I'm quite proud of myself
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!