That's the idea that I intend to follow NQ, just not bring any of this up at all smile H needs to grow up and start taking responsibility for his own actions.
My friend suggested that if he carries on hassling and threatening me, then I will say that he's owes me back payment on maintenance smile This will only be as a last resort though smile
I met my friend and we had a lovely catch up smile I went to do some shopping and H rang me when I was in the supermarket. He said he was round collecting his mail and I said that I'd just popped out to get some shopping. He asked me how it went this morning and I told him everything's ok and there's no need to worry. I told him some things they asked me on a need to know basis smile Not that there was much to hide anyway, it was just a flying visit really. I had to sign a statement and maybe get a report in a few days time. I don't really know what happens next.
For the first time ever I ended the conversation first smile I'm quite proud of myself smile


H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!