I have some old abandonment fears that resurface time to time. I'm pretty good at recognizing it for what it is but it can still be disturbing. Your H has to figure that stuff out for himself.

I would go very slow and let the moving come from him when he's ready. You have a whole lifetime in front of you.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss