@NTX I am not sure why you would get banned for that post; it was spot on.

Jon, you have proclaimed that you are done several times on this thread. You usually do it in the moment out emotion, yet you claim to be a rational thinker.

You are much more guided by emotion than you are willing to admit.

You really vilainized your w throughout this thread and at time many of us have bought in and felt like you really should just move on.

You have posted enough on here that parts of your personality have shown through and there are several things that you need to work on that have been pointed out several times. Usually you agree that you need to work on you and that shuts us all up. But then you go on and repeat the same mistakes.

Have you heard the story of the man who was stuck in a flood and offered help three different times yet each time the man refuses saying that god would save him? When the man gets to heaven, the man asks god why he did not save him and god says "I tried three times".

You are on this site for a reason Jon. Listen to the people trying to help you.

Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)