Releasing...

[NTX_Dad]

I may be banned for this post, but I don't care.

I agree with Wonka. You are punting on third down from the 1 yard line and taking the easy route out.

Just 72 hours ago you were really into your wife, taking over food, etc etc and just like that you are done? It makes no sense.

But if that's the admission you need to just walk away then go for it.

I can tell you that a PA doesn't have to be a deal breaker. I thought it would be for me and I was wrong. We are back together now and have a marriage that's infinitely better than what we ever had before. I am glad we toughed it out, it was worth it.

I'm not going to make excuses for her, but I am certain that if you take a deep look at your relationship over the years, there was probably a lot of reasons she ran to another man's arms temporarily. Was it a sin? Sure. Is she a horrible person that's just dying for a chance to cheat whenever someone flirts with her? I seriously doubt it.

Do you love her Jon? Or did you just want to win this battle? If it's the latter, then congrats, you "won".

Once you honestly open your eyes and reconstruct your relationship I bet you'll see you both were doing things wrong and you'd be able to follow a bread crumb trail right to the eventual encounter.

And to be blunt, I can clearly see from here why she left. You seem to react quickly and irrationally, you blame her for things, you get upset when things don't go your way, you change your mind constantly, and the moment there's adversity you walk away. She never knows what Jon is going to show up.

I can see it now, when she tried to tell you in the past about her feelings or if there was a conflict, I bet a cup of coffee you frequently left the room. Am I right?

You came here before, and you were here again looking for advice from the vets, but you never once did anything that anyone suggested. And then when the going got more tough, you claim you are suddenly done? Wow!

You know what, you should go ahead and sign the dissolution today then, get out of jail free Jon. I'd hurry before she changes HER mind.

And if I'm not banned, I guess I'll see you here in 2-3 years when you have problems with your next W.

Good luck.