The talk with h about is from the last time we spoke. I haven't brought up D or my plans to him.

Maybe I'm fooling myself that's this is the way to no longer have to live with him, I have asked him to leave, or feel the tension around my home of his depression. But, the fact that he will continue to be giving this POS cash, to help her at times is too much for me.

We have no health insurance or any other benefits because he was fired from his 20yr old job because of his sh't with her. We live off of his freelance that will eventually not generate enough. So I'm looking for work....as he gives her $?

I raised my sons rent to help with the coming heating and grocery bills, and he wants to give her $!

He hates that my D19 works, she starts at 6am when not in school the other days of the week. But we can't afford to give her an allowance so she wants her pocket money, but we are giving EA an allowance.

I have no legal say because it's his work, but it's our family $.

There is no way for me to get past this. I know no other way.

The past can't be ahead of you in the future.
You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction.
What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!