How about you don't bring it up at all unless he does.

Glad to hear the benefits check went well. Enjoy your coffee with your friend.

Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks