WHEN PATIENCE IS LOST

[RosaLinda]

Ambiv it is great that you recognize this. "He is terrified of getting hurt like that from me again, and has led to the feeling of disconnection. He has put a suit of armor on and I will have to slowly gingerly let him know that I accept him, admire him , and find him attractive in all areas." I believe that feeling respected and admired is SO important to men. That casual touching you mentioned, laying your hand on his arm or back, is important too. My DB coach suggested it to me, but my H still shies away. 

I hope the AD help you. You sound like a hot momma! Glad to hear that today is a new day and you're going to throw off misery and embrace your fabulous old self!