Completely, thanks for input. All of what you said was true except I really would pray for them.
I woke up at 4:30 praying, and don't plan to stop, and I already know things are different because I would've been calling her up about what a whore she was, and right now, I just feel sad that she got so lost. None of this will impact my desire to continue to change and better myself, even if I never see W again.