TTD180, it is in the past. With regards to the dishes, I would wash up 1 or 2 hours after having dinner. Getting close to bed time is when I would wash up, not 5 minutes after dinner was done. The 180's on the flatmate would be negatives, and I don't want to go there.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.