I'll just pick up on one thing if you don't mind It's easy to say this is what you should have done, but the past should be left where it is - in the past When you say about the dishes, it sounds to me like you rushed to get the washing up done and out of the way. Your W creating more mess for you just wound you up and understandably so. Just chill about it more, leave it a while and then do it when everyone has settled down for the evening. You probably wound your W up as well by jumping up after a meal and doing things straight away. This used to wind me up about my H as this is what he did as well. Anyway, like I said, it's in the past and that's where it stays Put it to the back of your brain now and dig it out when you need to Have you tried a 180 on your flatmate? lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
It's easy to say this is what you should have done, but the past should be left where it is - in the past 