Originally Posted By: JonF

She told me she already called her attorney and dismissed divorce, because she's so disgusted, she can't stand herself and she wants to prove she wants to be with me.

Well, friends and neighbors, this is a classic case of "too little, too late."


I am happy to have this dance over with; I am free! smile


This sounds incredibly selfish, smug and superior to me. I don't know what to make of you and your thought patterns right now.

Is it "too little, too late" because you couldn't be bothered with the hard work of reconciliation and piecing?! crazy Then you have the audacity to pray for W and OM to raise the kids "right"!!??

I'm now seeing a very, very clear pattern here, Jon. When your W attempts to return to the M and try to reconcile, you throw out childish stuff as "signing the dissolution papers now", "I don't even consider a reconciliation until W goes to therapy", "blah blah".

You are chickenshit, Jon, for not even facing the hardest part of DBing: reconciliation/piecing. This is how I view your actions and behaviors tonight after W elected of her own volition to dismiss the D which is VERY courageous of her to do so!!!!!!