Anitasues- sounds like you are having some difficult things to deal with right now. Just remember affection will come. Dont fall into the OM trap, it will just end up hurting everything you have been working so hard towards!
Girl, I wish there was something I could do to help you in your sitch w/ Om. I hope and pray you dont get into the grass is greener mindset.

Like Rott I dated a guy after my D that had a major drug problem, I stuck around thinking everytime he told me he was going to quit that he was actually going to quit. I thought(up until recently) that I was staying for him and his son (5 and a sweetie, called me mom!) But I actually stayed because I needed to be needed. Its a woman thing I guess.

My thoughts and prayers are with you!


Halo Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect. It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.