Me 1 year on pt2.

[hotwheelsaust]

TTD180. The people who are transferring finish on the 13th Dec and need to vacate by the 16th Dec. So no he isn't kicking me out as per se. His view was don't bother staying here to clean the place up and wait for the carpet cleaners to arrive on Monday the 16th. Clean the place up before the furniture gets picked up and he can be there for the carpet cleaners. So if it was coming from a nice person it would be "don't bother staying longer than you need to for the carpet cleaners". Coming from him it was like "p**s off as quickly as possible".
My W never complained at all, another fantasy that all was good. My biggest complaint about my whinging was asking the family has everyone finished eating, as I would then do the dishes. Five minutes after washing up the W would always make something. It was just one of those things that always annoyed me. I did always say it nicely, I always asked if everyone has finished eating before I washed up. But like clockwork, more dirty dishes. I cannot think of any other things that I complained about, but ask my W and I am sure you will hear a whole list of them. I never expected the house to be clean, the clothes to be washed, or new bedsheets each week. Didn't expect the dinner to be ready at a certain time.
I did have depression, it doesn't affect me since the BD. I don't do much, because simply there is very little on offer in this town, very little I want to be part of here. Not to mention that the temperature for most of the year is in the mid 30's and low 40's most days. You simply don't want to go out and do things, including being in the water. It is just too hot, even for that.
That is why I had my little rant, because these changes are for me. The old hotwheelsaust would have ranted and raved to everyone else, would have kept the anger in my mind and heart for days. The new hotwheelsaust just brushed it off, who cares about the bloke. I don't think of him as a friend, I don't want to be friends with him. I was simply told he is now sharing the house with me. In all honesty, I want to get out of the house asap, and out of this town asap. So if I don't have to stay in the house waiting for the carpet cleaners till Monday, then u beauty I am out of here.

ps: The house isn't messy anyway. Shoes are taken off at the door, I wash up every morning and night. Dirty clothes are put in a laundry basket each night. I clean up any mess after cooking. But I won't sweep out a garage every weekend, because the leaves blow through the open sides.