Originally Posted By: ForeverYoung

I don't think you messed anything up. If anything you may have forced some much needed movement. I'd see this as your opportunity to take a stand... whatever that may be for you.


Agreed! I don't think you should feel bad about what you did, and how you acted. I think, if anything, it makes you look like a strong woman for standing up for yourself and speaking your mind. It must've at least felt a little bit good smile

Perhaps if your "more of the same" behavior is being quiet, reserved, then standing up to him is a 180 for you?

Originally Posted By: uRworthy

So, dust yourself off and get back on your path with your head held high. I think you should walk around with a different mindset. Like, yea, that's right, back the heck way up cuz I am Rosa.


Agreed and love it!!!!!

Love must be tough wink

-cp

M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.