I am feeling the same way as you right now, kind of in self-protection mode. I understand the self-protection thing. I guess what you need is to decide what it is that YOU want for yourself. How do you picture your life farther down the road? I think you should at least hear him out at dinner to see where he is at. Keep posting and let us know how it all goes!
-cp
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
