Anita, my son is on spring break. He is w/H @ MIL's. He had B-Ball game yesterday. I went to the game and when I got back home my H and S10 were there already. I wasn't expecting that since S is spending week with H. H said he came to wash clothes.........ok. They left at 10:30. This man is so damn confused.............ARGHHHHHHHH
nitaf: I never told OM that I wanted to get back with exh, I just said I didn't want to see him anymore because he was back to drinking and that I needed time to work on myself and he needed to work on himself. I actually thought the roses were from my ex since we spent all Sunday together and d's dance competition and he let me hug him. I heart sank when I opened the card and it was from OM. Not drinking anymore, loves me, got a really good promotion at work so I'm happy for him, I just wish my ex h would think to do this kind of stuff once in a while.
I did tell OM that ex h and I are going to counseling in May. He said he knew it would eventually come to that, since I never fully let him into my life. OM said that he knows that I still love my ex h.
OM wants me to keep him on the line. I got this beautiful Easter basket delivered to my door with all kinds of goodies and a beautiful gold bracelet! It was waiting for me outside my apt. door. He wrote me telling me that he wants to earn my trust and that he loves me.I went over to give everything back and when I got there his face was all red and while I was talking to him, certain parts of his face was twiching. I asked him what did he do, he was acting weird, but he said that it was nothing. I told him how his face was twitching and he just put his hands over his face. His hands weren't shaking. I don't know maybe he was haivng withdrawal or something. So I just went home. I met exh and d for church on easter. Then d and ex went to a family breakfast and I went back home. Ex called me when they got home and I took d over my side of the family. I brought back d and ex was sleeping in bed. D went outside with dog, so there we were on his bed, he's in his underwear and he starts asking me about my new computer and what internet service do I have! No move towards affection, not even words. For a while I just sat there, thinking, should I ask if he wants to cuddle? Do I have to do everything? For someone who wants to get back together, it sure doesn't feel like it! Then I get all this attention from OM--MEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Is OM back off the wagon? Or was he holding back tears/emotions?
I would stay away from him. Tell him straight out how you feel.
I had a BF that I loved very much who did drugs. I finally told him to leave me alone, I was with my (then) fiance. He killed himself with heroin. I will (partially) never get over that. It's hard, but I don't feel like it could have been done any other way. I let him loose, he had to move on or give up.
