No these are all credit cards H has taken up since we were "separated". Out marital debt consists of the house, our credit card, a car payment and the second mortgage. That's it. I will not be responsible for his debt, but I. The interim it is affecting my credit severely.
H thinks I will be responsible for the second mortgage. I don't know why he has this idea. If he takes the house he takes the second mortgage. Period.
H and S got into it tonight but it didn't involve me. Apparently S wants to work the Haunted house and hang out with his friends this weekend. H came downstairs railing at S. Saying you will obey me, blah blah blah. I asked S later what that was all about? S told me OW was having a Halloween party for the kids and they were going like it or not. S also confided that when it's H's time with the kids he will talk to OW every hour or two on the hour and the kids need to stop what they are doing while H is on the phone with her. It makes me angry because it's wrong. Especially when they have a parent who would drop anything and everything to do things with them.
H came home tonight wearing a beret looking cap. I could hardly believe it when I saw him. I just looked at S and said what the heck is he wearing??? S said I think it's called a "barrette". I couldn't help it. I LOL'd. It is the funniest dam thing I have seen yet!!! Not to mention the pink plaid shirt (which has not made it's appearance since that fateful day).
Oh he's lost it. I could NOT believe he would be caught dead in that thing. Lol! Boy OW's got a grip on him. I don't know how or why, but he's her whipping boy now. Ugh!
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
