Tell her that you don't care if she is mad/upset at you any more and that you had become a better person on your own. Tell her that she can't blame you or try to control you by asking you not to be upset because there is another man seeing her. And tell her that your boundary still stands - that you will not share your W with another man.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.