Me 1 year on pt2.

[TryingToDo180]

Hwa, this is the only part that I don't understand in that post

Today he told me, I am not angry, but you will need to leave the next day after school finishes. I do not want you staying here any longer as I want to enjoy my summer vacation time.

Is he kicking you out or are you kicking him out or are you just thinking about it?

Anyway, here's my take on what you have just said.
Did your W at anytime complain the way that your flatmate complains or do you remember complaining to your W as often as your flatmate does? You can't change the past though, you can only change your future.
If I get told what to do then I just dig my heels in further and don't do it. I've found this with H over the years as well. If I just left him to his own devices then eventually he'll do it.
Also if you've got depression then you won't feel like doing a lot of things. I find that if I'm really low then all I want to do is curl up on the sofa watching TV or going on my PC.
I agree with you, your flatmate is being an a****ole. He's got no right to boss you around like that! I used to share with a girl who was like that as well, she got on my nerves and I found myself digging my heels in with her as well.
My main 180 that I wanted to work on was to keep this house tidier and clean it more. So far this doesn't happen and H comes round and has a moan about the state of the place. Yes you've guessed it, I don't want to do it then! lol.
One day though I'll surprise him and he'll come round and the place will be spotless I'm gradually getting there, but as I always say - Rome wasn't built in a day!
We must remember as well that we're not doing these changes for our spouse, but for ourselves. I'm reading this book at the mo called "the ministry of a messy house". It's very good if you lie Christian books It's only a short book to read as well and an easy read.
No 2x4s from me You could say I've been there, done that, got the t-shirt, lol.
oops sorry I've just re-read this bit

Rant time, so no need to tell me what to do or 2 x4's. :-)

Sorry if I've been telling you what to do Just wanted to add my 2 cents worth Well you must know me by now that you can't shut me up, lol.