You'll think of me....

[LoisB]

I hear where you're going FY. I do. I know that any spew from us gives the OW unlimited delight and that bites.

Still, I think there are other ways to reclaim power in a situation like this. First, is to back wayyyyyyy the he!!! off.

Linda, you had your say and that's more than many of us will have an opportunity to do. It's not such a bad thing. YOu behaved like any feeling human being, in this situation, would. And, the reaction you received (the smirking, the defensiveness, etc...) only goes to show how UNFEELING these two half-humans are.

Your H's insensitivity and inability to see/take your side shows how defective he is right now. And, as for the RT, it goes without saying. Someone who can smirk at the wife of a lover---I mean seriously? Their behavior was farrrrrr crazier than yours could ever be. Once the smoke clears, I think you will see this.

I wouldn't apologize to either one of them. Neither deserves that energy right now.

Take care of YOURSELF. Give yourself a few days to digest it all.

You handled it the best way you could in the moment. Now, let's all move on.

Heather