I was always told to not make any assumptions during my sitch. Many were wrong, but the biggest one was right - my W having a PA.

But really it all doesn't matter at this point, as the next move is the same Jon. DB, I mean "REALLY" DB and go dark if you want to stop the roller coaster and BEGIN your healing/transformation and resolution of your sitch. Each one of these "adventures" you've had resets the clock back to the beginning, and makes the finish line further away to boot.

Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012