AS, thank you for the insight. Other things he has done to make me think MLC is withdrawn, depression, anger, wanting to lose weight, wanting to color his hair, not feeling he is good enough socially, not feeling he is successful enough in society. He just recently turned 45.

You are correct on the not wanting to open myself up for hurt again. I have a major issue with trusting anything that he says right now which is why I find it hard to let my guard down.

I think he has an out of town run tonight so dinner will be postponed I'm sure, although he hasn't called or texted that information to me yet.

Thanks again.

Me-49, H-45
M - 4, Together 9
SS-9
Bomb Dropped - 9/12
Separation - 10/12
Reconcile -2/13
Separation - 8/2013
Reconcile - 10/2013
Separation - 12/2013
Reconcile - 2/14
Separate - 5/14
H Filed D - 8/14