Anitasues, congratulations to your d. That is wonderful!
I know what you mean about feeling jealous. Of course, it is different with me as they are stepchildren. However, H never showed love to them before and now he is loving them like crazy, kissing, hugging, smiling at them. All at the same time he stopped doing the same with me.
I hate myself for it, but sometimes I feel jealous.
I guess it's normal. My mom did the same with me and my dad. My uncle used to say "you can only have one queen in a castle." In reference to me and my mom - because I had become a teenager and therefore was no longer a "little princess."