You will never believe it--I got to hug exh yesterday!! I think he didn't know what hit him. Our d was at a dance competition and he can in late--2 mins before d went on stage, I saw him in the crowd and greeted him. I told him that both of us were glad that he came and I thanked him for coming--he has a really bad cold then I asked if I could hug him and he nodded yes, so I gave the big guy a big squeeze! So I guess that's something, and d won the elite gold, so she has qualified to go to Nationals which is in Maryland, so the 3 of us will be going to Maryland in July.