Oh THX, I'm so sorry, that must be extremely painful. Maybe apply the 48 hour do nothing rule for right now. Might not be smart to react from the hole you are in. I hope others who have experienced this will offer their advice.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
