3bm is right. When I started ignoring my H's constant texting and told him to 'have fun' when he went out, it has kind of become a non-issue with him now. Because I didn't make a big deal out of it. I no longer see the texting or trying to hide it and even though he still goes out, it doesn't seem like when he returns that he is all jazzed up by his night out. They want you to THINK they are having fun, when in reality they are not. They are band-aiding their troubles.

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

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