Second MLC?? Is that possible?

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The frustration just continues. My BIL, who runs the US side of the business with me, has been trying to contact H for two days for input on an issue we are trying to resolve. H has basically ignored him.

I did get an email from H about 8am this morning telling me he had a bad day - issues with the cell phone people over there - and was going to "drink his dinner". He signed off with "talk to you later."

I took that to mean he would call later in the morning (which he often does in case we need something from him) and told BIL he would be able to talk to H this morning.

No contact. No call, No answers to emails, texts, nothing.

I guess he doesn't have children to abandon, so the US side of the business is the substitute. I feel like he came back here, calmed me down and got me under control and is now off doing his thing without having to worry that I will be a problem again. Arghhh!

BIL and I can make the decisions ourselves, but H needs to understand that if he doesn't want to participate in running HIS business, then he cannot complain when we don't do things the way he wants them done. BIL is on board with that and said he would make it clear to H. (I am almost tempted to deliberately do things he won't agree with, as long as it doesn't damage the bottom line, just to show him that he does not control me!)

I am seriously beginning to wonder if it's time to throw in the towel. I absolutely amazed myself when he was here - no crying, no unbearable pain. I was just numb. I love the man and I still want him in my life, but I'm beginning to question why?

He came back with threats of attorneys and moving out and D and I caved. I didn't beg or try to stop him - I just cracked a door. Now here I am wondering if I should have ignored the threats and just let him do whatever it was he wanted to do. (I don't think he would have done much of anything. I don't think HE wants to let go of the rope.)

Oh well. Tomorrow's another day, right?