I did tell him that he could come over, but he always says that he has to do this or that Maybe I'll make dinner for him, tell him to come over after dance on tues for an invite to dinner on Wed. "be the first to tip the domino" I read that somewhere. I stop by the house last night, my night anyway and I asked him if there was anything I could get him "ginger ale, tea, or me"? He just looked at me. I'm always giving him praise, ever since the d and before, I would send him cards, sometimes for no reason, just hey ILU, he never was very good at being lovey dovey. I always telling him what a great dad he is, you look great in that shirt, have you lost weight. I lsot ten pounds and haven't heard a peep! Must I do everything?! I'm letting the not calling me thing go, but It does frustrate me. He suggested that we go back to c and try again and he doesn't seem to be showing me that he is trying