This morning I feel terrible. I am fighting becoming the WAW. I love my husband, but some verrry important parts of our relationship have been missing for years. Lastnight he was very distant, bad day at work I suppose. We barely spoke, he yelled at the kids alot, and sat at his computer litterally all night.
Those are all signs of depression. It sounds like this has been going on for quite some time, so he may be clinically depressed versus just being in a down mood. If you're on the verge of being a WAW then by all means approach him in as loving a manner as possible and ask him to see his PCP and get evaluated for depression. Some medication and/ or therapy could completely turn his life around. It can be difficult getting depressed people to seek help though. Usually a depressed person doesn't realize how sick they were until they're coming out of it. They also don't realize how harmful their depression is to those around them.
