Just confirmed that W is having a full blown PA with a 24 year old male.
W is 49.
On two occasions (after midnight), she has sent him photos of herself in her underwear, posing seductively. (Selfies using mirror.) He has gone to her apartment in the middle of the night 20 minutes later.
W does not know I am aware of this.
I am so disgusted that I want to throw up. This guy was born the week before I met W. He is less than half her age.
This has so thoroughly shaken the foundations of my life, and my understanding of who this person is that I married that I am just staggering around right now.
How can I even speak to her again, knowing this is going on?
Just laast Sunday, I went to get a coffee and pastry with her - at her request. (I did not go out to the pub with her last week.) I have been dark for a couple months but have occasionally been available. Again, how can I even speak to her now, knowing this is going on?
I want to stop all verbal communication with her, and communicate entirely by email, and only to discuss things which involve my children. I am so revolted by her, I don't think I even want her back anymore.
As I have said before, I understand that affairs are part of the MLC process, and I have accepted that they are a necessary part. And I could handle this if the OM was a guy in his 40's; even a guy over 35 would be okay. But my W having a sexual relationship with 24 year old boy makes me feel every type of bad emotion possible (and some I didn't even know were possible.)
I am so tired of this being an entirely passive thing on my part. I want her to feel the awful pain that I have.
Me:52 Wife:49 Married 19 years Son:16 Daughter:14 Bomb dropped with ILYBNILWY: May 2013 Wife moved out 2Jun13
