Quote: I can see though that he needs your words of affirmation...compliment him, tell him he's a great dad, point out anything that will boost his ego...he needs that reassurance from you that he can please you. A man will be happy if he knows he can please his woman.
Anita, do you think Cindy has a good point here? What is ex-h's LL by the way--I'm guessing from recent posts its definitely not PT. Do you think its possible that your HD may actually intimidate him a little? I've actually been in your shoes... my LL is PT and I tried for quite some time to get W to try all sorts of experimenting in the bedroom with very little success, and I think I may have even made her feel a little inadequate in the process. I know I wish I'd been a little more patient and supportive with her in these matters.
BTW, thank you again for your post on my thread, I always appreciate your insight.
