I live in Western NC, so most of our courses are pretty simple. I'm not a good enough golfer for places like Pinehurst and those places. Your average duffer here.

Update for today: I went back to my bed last night with no incident. Strangely enough, W was watching the World Series on TV while she was holed up in her cave, aka the master bedroom. It has become her home for the past 4 months. If me or the boys want to spend any time with her while we are at home, we have to go in there.

The strange thing is, she was watching sports again be herself. She has always complained that me and S12 don't do anything but sports and it drives her crazy that it's all we watch. I can't help but wonder of OM is a Red Sox fan or something stupid like that. I'm sure its not her interest in whether the obstruction call that ended game 3 was the proper interpretation of the rule or not.(Haha)

As I turned into bed, she proceeded to text/message/FB for 2 solid hours right beside me as I attempted to sleep. She knows this is the one thing that ticks me off more than anything. I did not allow her to push my buttons and turned away from her, eventually going to sleep. Can't help but think she was doing it out of spite.

BTW, she has been into my FB account snooping on me again this weekend. I'm not sure what she thinks she is going to find, but I've got nothing to hide. During her venom laden spew Friday night, she informed me that she had searched through my phone and found my private messages to another married woman. In all those messages that were about our kids playing ball and catching up a little bit, the worst she could come up with was me telling this woman "thanks for a friendly ear." W threw that up in my face as she was spitting venom and trash. I resisted the urge to remind her of all the dirty sexual messages that I know she has sent to multiple men. I also resisted the urge to remind her that she had also been sending multiple men naked pictures of herself. It was hard, but I knew it would get me nowhere.

I'm pretty sure I don't even like W any more. This person she has become is revolting. Detaching without anger is hard.


Both 40
T-22 M-18
S13
S11

Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13
EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13
EA #2-9/13/13

Moved out and Legally Separated 6/14

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