JonF, thanks. I'm sure that's what I will be doing. Feeling stronger everyday. I hadn't brought up OW or R talk before. But when he asked me yesterday, I felt strong enough to make that very clear to him. I feel like he's been sitting on the fence for a while and riding a roller coaster. I chose to not be an option for him anymore and I also got off the ride. I'm looking for actions, not words. Talk is cheap.

And I'm aware of the "grieving" period as well. He did that last year also. I appreciate your response.

Me-49, H-45
M - 4, Together 9
SS-9
Bomb Dropped - 9/12
Separation - 10/12
Reconcile -2/13
Separation - 8/2013
Reconcile - 10/2013
Separation - 12/2013
Reconcile - 2/14
Separate - 5/14
H Filed D - 8/14