I like the way you worded your advice AJM. Detach from the outcome. I hadn't heard that before, that is a great way to look at it.

jfun, glad to see you are doing a bit better today. smile Hang in there!

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.