Hey I got me one of those type dudes! My h doesn't look happy to see me either. After we've been apart for 3 to 4 days though...he's very aggressive in the bedroom.
So when you and h finally get together in the bedroom, is it great?
I think what helped me is to notice his actions outside the parameters of sex, touching, etc. If he's doing the things to have an r with you then you'll need to focus on those to keep you going in the right direction. After you get on firm ground about the r actually going together then approach him about the physical stuff you need. He'll be more open then.
You have to remember that right now he's very unsure about you...he may not even really believe you are there to stay. it's hard to be touchy feely with someone you think may be gone tomorrow...it's hard to put your heart out there with that mentality.
I can see though that he needs your words of affirmation...compliment him, tell him he's a great dad, point out anything that will boost his ego...he needs that reassurance from you that he can please you. A man will be happy if he knows he can please his woman. I bet then he'll be happy to see you if he knows he can do somethings right around you!
