Hi Say,

Hope you are good.

A big lesson learned, & with hurt on both sides, think I GAL'd a bit too much but I had got to the stage of giving up on WAW.

Quick update:
Spoke on Sunday evening with WAW & too little validating & a little too forceful with my statement. I said that she is expecting too much if she expects me to continue moving forward with discussions about us getting back together if she is still in relationship with OM. This went down badly & controlling but in a way I'm pleased I said it. Although I really want to try again it just seems like cake-eating if she wants to talk deeply to me about the future & meet a couple of time a week (only to talk) yet still maintains the other relationship.
WAW has gone back to fairly quiet since that call on Sunday, especially after the frequency of calls etc last week.
I will not pursue, she has to work this out for herself. Still a rollercoaster, who knows!


Me 50
W 46
Stepson 16
Together 6yr, Married 3yr
Known each other 20yr
ILYBNILWY Jul 13
Found out about affair Jul 13
Left Marital home Jul 13