Oh ok, that's not a domestic abuse type of restraining order, that's just a boiler plate divorce RO to in essence, "freeze" the marriage and finances until the court can rule on the case. It probably does not state you can't be in her presence.
With that said, the fact she waved that at you literally in your face should tell you that you should stay away - DB or no DB. She seems a bit unpredictable.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012