Rott--your so funny!! you always make me smile. Yeah, I know patience and hard work. I worry about getting that passion back though. Its like were good friends and thats it. He doesn't seem like he is really into me, that I don't turn him on. I was always the agressive in the sex dept but you would figure being away from a woman for three years he would at least try something on me. Maybe I have worked with men for too long! no offense guys