Feel like falling down

[willbwell]

thanks job! gabby, angela,luckily I have been swamped with school work and now a sick child-strept..so no time for thinking/dealing with the crazy h stuff.
I know I will be ok. I know I am made of strong stuff. I know I have a great support network.
i am being amicable. have a temporary order in place that just says status quo will remain.he still pays the bills. nothing been split out yet. I haven't pushed a visitation schedule. we agreed to this thru attorneys. didn't go before a judge. saved some money on that one.
Next I guess is gathering all his financials. I have 0 financials. Been a stay at home all these 23 years.

I wish our society, the media would bring to light MLC. Its an epidemic!! All the time I would like to say to h, sorry honey but what you are doing is not unique to you. Its a script. divorce my friend is not going to make you any happier. or maybe it will briefly, but at what costs? I am mind reading, but I think that he thinks, the divorce will relieve his guilt from cheating. I know, I know...can't tell them anything!