Portia - if you really wanted to contact someone you would find a way.

Have you changed your email address and phone number? Have you moved house? They are hard to shake off I tell you. I changed my email and moved, and he still tracked me down!! I gave up. In the electronic age our mobile phone is not the only way of reaching someone!! There is even snail mail. Trust me on that one. My xh doesn't want me but he certainly knows how to stay in touch. I honestly think if I were in an FBI witness protection programme that man would find a way. Not for frequent contact, but almost as if it is a power game. It used to frighten me, but not now.