Sorry things are seemingly not well. Continue to show her a PMA through it all and handle each step with class and dignity. Also find a balance and be sure protect your self when needed. Pray and ask God for guidance along the way w/ the decisions you have to make. Having everything divided may help to bring peace of mind your way....it's hard I know, but looks at the positives and let go of the negative.
Truth is, you do need to be the focus of your life right now in order to get to where you need to be. Everything you are going through is preparing you for "your moment", but only if you learn your lesson(s). Keep the faith even in the hard parts; your future will be much greater than your past; no matter what happens in the next few weeks.
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
