I had the worse case of the flu I think I have ever had!!!! Well, ex didn't suspect anything and I openly admitted everything, when I probably should have just repented and try to repair my marriage. Since day one, we have contact almost everyday either in person or by phone. I tried to ML to him, but it did work. He just couldn't get in the mood and that was 2 yrs and I haven't tried anything and he hasn't yet either. Rebuiding trust, well, I am always there for him, I listen, and I have worked really hard on myself and he took notice. It was a lot of little things. But I have my own apt. now, no more credit card debt, maintaining my car etc. Lost weight also. I am glad to here you are seeing a c.
