What do you mean by you hope he doesn't have what you had?! I am glad that you guys seem to be working through it slowly but surely.Did you guys have a time period where there was no contact? Do you ML?We don't date yet.He only suspects that I had an A but I never admitted it. My C said don't tell. Just repent.He said that he had an A because not enuff ML. We all know that it is much deeper than that but he doesn't realize that sex was the area of our marriage that suffered because of the breakdown elsewhere. Ml has been better now than it has ever been.How do you rebuild trust?