Quote: halo: yes, you just described me--a doulbe life for sure. I thought it was friendship also and grass greener. How did you make a break from OM. Just curious. OM still calls me once in a while or e-mails me.
Well to be honest with you it was the hardest thing I have ever been through in my entire life. Long story short... OM and I always had a great time together, We always went out to the bars and such. Well one night we went to a bar. When we got back to my place he opened the door pushed me down in the breeze way, dragged me into my apt and proceeed to choke me. Lots more details but they dont need to be mentioned. I though for sure he was going to kill me, screamed and finally got the strength to get away from him. Ran across the hall to get neighbors who called police. I had to get a PPO and press charges. OM and I were together for 18 months and he never called me a bad name much less did anything to harm me. This is a lot to take in but this is all it took for me to realize I was too good for this. Every since this day December 11, 2001 I have thanked the good lord above for giving me one more chance to change the person I turned into. I have come a long way. I hope and pray that no one else has to go through the pain I had to go through in-order to realize this is the wrong thing to do and break it off. What ever steps you take to get rid of OM make sure you stick to them, I tried several times before dec 11, 2001 to break it off with OM but always came back to him because of sweet emails or innocent phone calls. Its not worth it. I wish you the best of luck. If you need me im here for ya!
Halo
Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect.
It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.
