2 year A confirmed

[complicated]

Hi RL and thanks for checking in on me. I'm holding up which is about all I can say.

I am trying to detach more but it is so difficult with kids and the kids having activities that we both go to.

I have always gotten along very well with H's family. I think both MIL and FIL like seeing me each week. I know with FIL not doing too much it is nice for MIL to have someone else to talk to.

I think he wants to know what I want to see if I am bashing him. But I never do bash him. I always tell her that he is not the H I married and she has no idea what happened to her son. She tells me she wishes she had some advice for me but even she doesn't know what the deal is with him.

RL it is very nice to know MIL will not accept OW and neither will the kids. I do think H thinks eventually it will blow over and maybe it will. I don't even know if he is still seeing her because I am trying harder to detach.

I saw my IC today just to deal with the fallout with the kids though the kids are getting along with him. After all H just bought D16 a new car. Yep! I had asked to be included since afterall I was paying for it too and he did it completely without me. I was so p!ssed. He admitted to doing it on purpose.

I don't know when he will ever get over this.

Also when I was on my way to D19s game out of town I text him to see when he was leaving. His response was "why"? Seriously? Why couldn't he answer that. He said I must have a reason. I told him that I don't have ulterior motives. After all of that he has been ok.

I've been keeping up with your thread too, just haven't been posting because it takes longer than reading. I don't understand your H wanting to be bossed around and I can't believe that could last very long. My H is very easy going and he said I always had to have my way and that grew old. Funny though because I think that is how OW is.

I'm going to pop over and see what's happening with you. Hope the eyes are still doing good. Keep hanging in there.

I will try and do a better job of updating.

Thanks again for popping in!