Rolling in the deep...

[wishing, hoping]

Thanks AJ. I am hoping this will soon be over but I don't think the financial end is going to go smoothly. We received notice from the bank which holds out second mortgage that our program is being discontinued. We will have to refinance. If H wants the house this is his do or die to start to get things in his name only. If he can't refinance the second mortgage in his name only, how in the world can he refi the house? I am guessing he can't. This is going to be interesting. H has gotten himself into a huge financial pickle and now he is screwed. He expected me to take over the second mortgage and now he will have to because I will not qualify to refinance it by myself.

OW is supposedly in a financial crunch as well because she is on disability from her bad back and can't work. Interesting how the kids told me she is looking at buying a new car but can't afford much of anything anymore and doesn't drive.

Things are really heating up for H. I am guessing OW is really putting on the pressure. Couldn't happen to a nicer guy either.

Oh well. He's being nice for the moment. We will see how long it lasts.

WH